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February 07, 2013

DISNEY WORLD // With a Toddler




I am finally getting around to posting a few pictures from our quick little trip to Disney last month.  We also were there back in November for my families annual trip, which was also Kurt's very first time there.  To us that was a big deal, a very big deal.  We were very big Disney people growing up, let's just say my mom is a Disney College of Knowledge graduate... complete with mickey ears grad cap and all... oh yeah, big Disney people. I have very vivid memories of being there as a kid and dreaming of taking my own little one's there.  Knowing what Disney means to our whole family everyone wanted to be there for Kurt's first trip.  I mean people were calling him for there favorite rides months in advance.  While we are so fortunate to have shared the experience with all of our loved ones (both sets of grandparent, both aunts and their significant others, a great grandmother, and our family friends with three of there own kids ages 11, 9, and 6) it was definitely a little overwhelming a times.  A lot of people wanting Kurt's attention made it a little hard to sneak in naps.  Mix that in with what I think is the unhealthiest food choices (more on that later) and plane germs and get yourself a poor little boy getting sick on his very first trip to Disney... even with all that working against us we had a magical time.

Our trip in January seemed to go a little smoother... It was only the three of us for a quick little trip while we were in Orlando for a trade show.  It was way less planned (like, we booked a hotel through hot-wire an hour before we rolled into town) and yet seemed way easier.  That being said along the way I picked up a few tips on tackling Disney with a toddler and thought it would be fun to share them here.  It all can be a little overwhelming for everyone and if you are anything like me, you probably have pretty high expectations and want everything to go perfect.  That leads me to my number one tip...

1. Be flexible.  Traveling takes a lot out of everyone especially little ones, so try not to plan too many things and don't freak out if things aren't going according to your plan.  You can make memories even doing the little things, that don't involve characters, lines, pictures, more lines.  Let your little ones take it all in on our there own and call the shots.  If they are having fun playing with a leaf, let them enjoy it, even if there is a parade going on in the background.  Just let them soak in all the Disney magic on their own and try not to force anything on them, everyone will have more fun this way... trust me.

2.  Meals.  Ok this for me was a big one.  Kris was so tired of hearing me complain about the quality of food choices, especially kids.  During our first trip,  we stayed on the Concierge Level of the Wilderness Lodge the first two days by ourselves before everyone met us there.  This was made things really easy for us with Kurt for a few reasons.  First, the concierge level is offered on Disney properties (not sure if every hotel has one) and they offer food and drink pretty much around the clock that you can help yourself to.  They had milk so this made it really easy to give Kurt a bottle in the morning.  Also, they had somewhat healthy options like fruits and vegetables and we were always gave Kurt a little something before we went anywhere.  That way no matter where or when we got to eat I felt like he was taken care of.  Plus I would grab 2 bananas each morning to have on the go.  In addition to that I packed some of my own food and snacks for him like a few avocados, organic apple sauce, annie's cheddar bunnies,  happy melts, organic raisins and some happy baby pouches.  I never really fed these to Kurt as food when he started to eat but I like to keep one on me all the time so if Im ever in a jam I feel he is getting some nutrients.  He likes the novelty of them because he doesn't really get them so its a win win for vacation food.  Also, he doesn't normally eats snacks so these things also kept him pretty occupied on the plane.  Once my parents got there we moved to The Beach and Yacht Club Vacation Club Villas which have a kitchen and they brought a bunch of food with them, so we were back in business.  My parents only live two hours from Disney so they packed coolers but if you are traveling from far I saw they have this service that will let you place orders for groceries, diapers, and wipes delivered right to your hotel.  I have to say I really has a hard time getting past the food situation our first trip.  The second trip I eased up on myself a bit and had a little more of a "we're on vacation attitude".  He got a few more chicken fingers and quite a bit of fries too... I even let him have a few bites of a Mickey Cookie and Creme Ice Cream Sandwich, at 8:00 pm wearing no pants during Pluto's dance party.  Oh yeah, I let him live!!! I couldn't deprive him (more like me) twice of having that delicious chocolate smudged face.  Even though I'm pretty sure someone (pop-pop) snuck him a bite last time.  It was pretty much at that moment I realized that even though he was only 15 months old, he got it.  He got that this was special and felt the magic.

3. Nap Time. Try to stick to there regular napping schedule as much as possible, they will most likely be pretty overtired from all the action anyway so try to get in as much sleep as you can.  Kurt always wants to be a part of the action and has a hard time falling asleep with so many distractions.  He never wanted to miss a thing.  We found the best way to get him to sleep was to find a quite corner somewhere and rock him to sleep in the stroller.  We would face him toward a wall or somewhere we knew no one would be walking by.  Our favorite was at Sleepy Hollow refreshments it was pretty central to everything and they have a little seating area tucked away in the back that is pretty secluded.4. Attractions.  Know that the popular rides usually have the longest waits.  Waits, lines, and toddlers aren't the best combination.  Kris downloaded the Disney World app for which updates all the wait times and tried to keep everything under 20 minutes.  We found a few hidden gems and actually went on a few things we had never even knew existed.  Some of Kurt's favorites at the Magic Kingdom were It's a Small World (they always seem to have a pretty reasonable wait), The Jungle Cruise, Dumbo (which has this new play while you wait thing that he may have liked better than the ride), The Carousel of Progress (this is a family favorite, and there is never a wait... a must for sure), Country Bear Jamboree, The Walt Disney Railroad, and The Peoplemover.  Attraction Fail= Swiss Family Robinson Tree House... stairs carrying a toddler in 85 degree weather... not by best idea. Can we talk about The Peoplemover for a minute... I'm not really sure how we didn't know about this one and I'm not sure who was more excited me or Kurt.  The Peoplemover is a very slow attraction that rides on an elevated track through Tomorrowland and goes through most of it's attractions... including Space Mountain.  I don't know what it was about this ride, maybe the fact that he had just woken up from a nice long nap, or the wind blowing through his hair as it gently sped up and slowed down but to Kurt, The Peoplemover was where it was at.  (Also, if you are traveling with children of multiple ages, some of which can ride Space Mountain and others who can't and are not happy about it... I'm thinking you can do some pretty sweet talking about how this is a "special" Space Mountain just for them... and probably still have time for an ice cream by the time everyone else is done with the real deal.)  
On The Peoplemover with Nonna and Pop-Pop... while this doesn't quite capture the enjoyment, trust me, practically squealing the whole time.  Oh, and notice the hands. :)

5.  Bring a Change of Clothes.  Ok,  I know this is like parenting 101, but it's something I often forget.  Well I thought I was pretty safe bring him an extra t-shirt and sweater.  Ok, I was wrong.  Why was I wrong... because there was a splash pad.  Show this kid a splash pad, or fountain, or water and all bets are off folks.  He spent a good 30 minutes in that thing until I had to physically remove him because his lips were blue, at which point he threw his very first tantrum.  We dried him off (we had to buy a towel, you may want to bring one of those too) and changed his clothes and he spent the rest of the day pant less. (Hence, pant less dancing with Pluto).  




We really do love Disney and look forward to many more trips together as a family.  The whole time we were there Kris and I kept picturing our future saying "I can't wait to show him this" and I know that running around trying to get on as many rides as possible really isn't too far away.  However, this time I was enjoying the slow pace of letting it all sink in and experiencing everything for the first time through his eyes.

Feel free to comment with any questions you have.  I'm sure I will post a few updates as more tips come to me.  I would love to hear about any experiences and tips you've discovered traveling with little ones.


January 22, 2013

CURRENTLY.


So I took a little time away from here the past few days... I had planned on scheduling posts for when we were away, but one of my resolutions was also to disconnect a bit... so it didn't happen and Im cutting myself a little slack!!!  Also, we missed a menu plan for this week because I didn't do any cooking while I was away... but you can look for one on Friday.  (I figured this was the best day to post because most people do their shopping and planning over the weekend.)

We just got back from a little trip to Florida and I'm not too happy about it right now.  Currently I am freezing sitting here in my winter parka, scarf, and boots... Why? Because I am just way too cold to take one single layer off, I need them all right now.

Do you get a little blue when you come back from a vacation?  I definitely do!  Yesterday was our first day back and it really took everything I had to muster up the strength to get out of bed and brush my teeth, let alone go food shopping and unpack.  (Im still working on the unpacking)  It's just so cold and brown here...  I miss letting my kid run around without any clothes on and going to the park and sunshine and trees (Why do we live here again?)

This morning we dropped Kurt off at Kris' moms and headed into Seaside to get some work done... which has not done much for my back from vacation funk.  It was my first time seeing the store since Kris and his crew gutted it from the storm damage.  It's all a little overwhelming right now... I have a really long list of to do's and decisions that I have been putting off and it is time to get to it.  I need a major dose of motivation and maybe a fairy godmother that can just tell me what to do.

January 16, 2013

BRINGING UP BOY.


As a little girl, I couldn't wait to be a mom!  I didn't play with barbies I played with babies... I had a diaper bag that I brought around with me and everything.  That being said, you would think I'd have this mom thing a little more together.  My kid has gone shoeless, hatless, and coatless way more than i'd like to admit and I forget diapers an embarrassing amount.  Then there was that time 2 weeks after he was born that we walked into a resaturant to be greeted by a friend asking "where's the baby?", followed by Kris and I running frantically to the car to retrieve our sleeping babe snuggled up in his car seat.  (It takes a bit of time to adjust to life with a newborn, and they are so darn quite... please don't call child protective services... I'm a good mom, I swear!)  I mean... my 8 year old self would have never, in fact i'm sure she's cringing somewhere deep down.  I imagined my future self to be a perfect tea party hosting, french braiding, angelic lullaby singing, all together all the time mama.  So that may be a little far from the reality.  To start... I didn't have a girl.  When I was pregnant I truly didn't care the sex the baby, but I always pictured myself as a mother to a girl.  I know girls.  It's what I do... dress up and jewelry.  Therefore when I first found out that I had given birth to a big, beautiful, baby boy I panicked that I wouldn't have as much to offer him.

I could not have imagined the amount of joy I find in all things boy.  The way he grunts and growls, the instinctual car sounds he makes at anything with wheels, his rough yet gentle kisses and strong squeezes, the throwing of everything.  I have a new found love for so many things by experiencing them through his eyes... I now realize that I can do boy.  It's not all glitter and hair bows over here... bring on the reptiles.  Then, just when think there is nothing tame about him, I watch as my husband brings him a little too close to the rattlesnake exhibit.  He pulls back with caution and I think... that's my son!

January 15, 2013

THIS MUST BE THE PLACE.


Sometimes we have a tendancy to take the everyday things in our life for granted.  For me that has always been the beach.  I grew up minutes away from its glistening shores and sadly there has been days when even though my shop is right on the beach I don't even notice the waves crashing on the shore.  I haven't been to the beach since September when at 4:00 pm Kris and I decided on a whim to pack up a few supplies and let Kurt play in the sand before the sun went down.  We watched as our son rolled his little body around feeling the warmth of the hot sand while a perfect breeze ran through his barely there hair.  Once again, I took it for granted.  I realized what a great moment it was for our family, but thought nothing of the simple pleasure of white sand and salt air.

After Sandy ripped apart the east coast and particularly devastated our town, Seaside Heights, I didn't think about the beach.  Owning two businesses completely invested and centered around the beach and boardwalk I was scared for our future and that of my friends and family.  I worry a lot... it's kind of my thing.  I worry for me, I worry for my family, I worry for my friends, I worry for my son... a lot.  Unless everything and everyone in my life is good and happy, I am worrying.  And when everything is going great, I worry that it's too good.  It's a major fault of mine and slowly but surely I am working on it.  Needless to say, after the storm, I have been worrying a lot.  However, not having a place to go to the beach this summer was simply not on my list of worries.

Today, 3 months after the storm, here we are at the beach in sunny florida.  While there are still lots of unknowns for what our summer will hold, things are looking a little a better.  (I mean, we are in florida) It wasn't until today when I nestled my bottom into a beach chair and happily looked on as kurt scooped dirty, coarse, shell like, grey, seaweed encrusted sand into his mouth and rubbed it all over his sticky sunblock lathered chest with wild abandon... that I missed my beach.

January 14, 2013

HELLO FROM THE ROAD.

We made our way down to Florida this week for some trade shows and a visit with my parents, we also may have squeezed in some Mickey time as well.  I was a little nervous about a 18 hour road trip with a 15 month old, but so far so good.  I will share some of the tips that seemed to have helped us when we get back.  This little guy has been pretty amazing and we are having such a great time.

January 09, 2013

BITS OF LUCK.

I constantly find myself saying the phrase, "how lucky am I?"  Everyday there are a million little moments that I feel so blessed I get to experience.  They may not be glamorous, they may not be pretty, they may not be significant... but they are all mine, and for that I am thankful.  I know there will be a point in my life that I will look back and wish I could relive these days, and hopefully these little bits will help me do so.  Enjoy!


1. Kurt's favorite gift this Christmas was these nesting/stacking blocks.  He can't even contain his excitement when we take them out. Oh, and knocking them down... does it get any better?

 2. Christmas is officially over our house.  We finally got all the decorations away and I gotta say... it feels good.  However, I did feel the need to keep this little guy around for a few more weeks.  He is wintery and cheery and makes me oh, so happy!

3. The other night Kris and I sat down and really docs into setting some goals for ourselves.  It felt good and helped ease some of the anxieties we are having over the future of our businesses since the hurricane.  Kris had learned this goal setting routine a few years ago, and I think it really helped me prioritize a lot.  First we briefly described the life we want to strive for and then we wrote down three five year goals and three one year goals each for four categories: Personal, Health, Career, and Financial.  They each had to be measurable and attainable.  It was really nice to sit down with one another over a glass of wine and talk about our future.  Try it... I highly recommend it.

4.  Packing.  I really dislike packing.  However it always seems to make me hang up the big pile of clothes on my floor and tackle the heaping mound of laundry.   But it's always followed by an adventure... and for that reason, I really like packing.

March 17, 2010

slainte...





today i am totally wishing we were back in ireland...

happy st.patrick's day...

March 04, 2010

liberty of london for all...


march 14th 2010... i hope to be at target... buying this...
i can so see myself riding this bike to the post office every day...

February 19, 2010

atlantic city... always turned on...


taking a little break from crossing things off my list and heading down to atlantic city for the night...  
ill be the one in the leopard dress...

February 15, 2010

playing hooky...

today i should be flying to vegas for magic...
however, i woke up this morning and changed my mind.  i couldn't bring my self to drive to another airport, hop on another plane, squeeze my way through the other passengers to my teeny tiny seat toward the back,  and sleep in a comfortable but only because I have been on feet for hours bed.  nope, not this time. 

instead i plan on spending the next few days 
(i should be walking for hours and hours among the many, many booths at the las vegas convention center) 
crossing things off my list...

1.  inspiration board for our house
2.  tax stuff (i know, maybe i should have gone to vegas)
3.  yoga
4.  valentine's day (it was silly... i don't recommend it)
5.  take down christmas decoration (yes, you read it right)
6.  make some changes and update the shop
7.  cook in my new martha cast iron pot
8.  laundry
9.  organize tear sheets (for now... this is a huge job)
10. blog banner

February 07, 2010

good to be home...



i just got back from what seems to be a month of traveling and tropical weather...
and was greeted with lots and lots of snow...

i couldn't be happier...
it's good to be home!!!